Posted by scfirefly on May 13, 2008 at 2:45 a.m. (Suggest removal)

My heart just breaks for this family.
As a mother of two teenage girls, I was haunted by this story and couldn't sleep. I wondered why two PG students were there so early in the afternoon. It sounds like the twins, who turned 15 on Saturday, might have just left the DMV off of College Park Rd after getting their learner's permit.

Posted by geekguy2008 on May 13, 2008 at 2:50 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Very sad.
I hope all parents who read this article remember this lesson.

Posted by ForPnC on May 13, 2008 at 4:32 a.m. (Suggest removal)

My condolences to the family for such a tragic loss. Rest in peace, ladies.

"Though the crash did not affect westbound lanes of the interstate, traffic was snarled as drivers slowed to watch the commotion."

Traffic was backed up on the west-bound side. Why?! Because of STUPID, MORPID, FRICKING, DISGUSTING, RUBBER-NECKING, NOSY-ASS PEOPLE WITH ABSOLUTELY NO LIFE EXCEPT TO TAKE JOY IN OTHER PEOPLE'S MISERY FOR THEIR NEXT GOSSIP SESSION!

If I could cuss on this forum then you would know how I REALLY feel about those types of people.

Posted by moonpie on May 13, 2008 at 5:50 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Unbelievable. I had just come thru that area heading west bound. Driving in interstate traffic is not a good place to learn at 15yrs of age. Two families changed for ever. Poor truck driver he can't stop as fast as some people think.

Posted by jifdeng3 on May 13, 2008 at 5:54 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Congrats on making yourself look like and idiot.

Posted by jifdeng3 on May 13, 2008 at 5:55 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Directed to ForPnC

Posted by abitskeptical on May 13, 2008 at 6:07 a.m. (Suggest removal)

This is so very sad. My prayers are with this family & their friends. May the souls of the departed rest in peace.

I was driving at 15 but that was 31/2 decades ago.
The roads are much more congested & people in general do drive crazier & "meaner" then when I was a teen.

Our oldest didn't start driving until he was almost 18. He was in a hurry to get his permit, but we were not. The same holds true for the other 2 children who are now 18 & 20. Our 15 yr old keeps asking when he is going to get his permit...

I have been saying for years that I think the driving age needs to change.

Posted by ColdBeer on May 13, 2008 at 6:41 a.m. (Suggest removal)

What a horrific accident. My condolences to all involved. I taught my daughter to drive in empty school parking lots and then on neighborhood streets. It was quite a while before she was on a road with a speed limit of over 25 mph and she had her real license for over a year ebfore I let her on the interstate. I agree that the interstate at 3:00 in the afternoon was not a good choice. I cannot imagine the devestation this family feels. I hope the young girl in the hospital recovers.

Posted by dreamer on May 13, 2008 at 6:49 a.m. (Suggest removal)

My heart just breaks when I see the pictures and read this. I agree with scflyer who said they had probably just left the DMV...
My daughter turned 15 this year and has been driving with a learner's permit--but I would NEVER allow her to drive on I-26. Not yet--she's not ready. Plus, she won't be getting her license until she's had Driver's Ed. Maybe then, I will be comfortable enough to teach her interstate driving.
I realize this won't prevent every accident...but I hope it wil make her more aware when she does drive.

Again, my heart just aches for this family. For a twin to lose her mother and sister, it's just heart wrenching.

Posted by abitskeptical on May 13, 2008 at 6:55 a.m. (Suggest removal)

We attempted to begin driving lessons with our daughter who is now 20 a few years ago. It was a hair raising experience.

On a track field she was grace in motion. Behind the wheel of a car, she was a bundle of uncoordinated motion.

I told her she was meant to be either royal or famous because she was not meant to drive but rather to be driven around. We suspended the driving for a while. When we resumed the lessons a year or so later, she was much improved.

I guess what I am saying is that there is not magic age at which a young person is ready to drive. Many just are not ready at 15 or even 16 & if this is so, they should not go get a permit just because they can.

Posted by AMPhillips on May 13, 2008 at 7:25 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Cushire, we're all going to miss you so much - this is so ridiculously unfair. Rishire, if you ever read this, know that we're all behind you.

Posted by Early on May 13, 2008 at 7:33 a.m. (Suggest removal)

My God comfort the family and friends of this family.
I have teenagers and really don't have words to comment on this story.

Posted by Roget on May 13, 2008 at 7:46 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Sad yet preventable. But this is the time for prayers...not second guessing.

Posted by Hutch on May 13, 2008 at 8:02 a.m. (Suggest removal)

It was heart wrenching to read about this tragic
accident. Who can understand the whys of it, only
our omnipotent God.My condolence to the family

Posted by devster on May 13, 2008 at 8:02 a.m. (Suggest removal)

This is terrible news to lose these people to an accident like this.

Let it serve as a reminder that just because your kid wants it, does not mean that they need it. I remember fighting to get a permit for a long time before my parents finally let me... and then I was restricted to driving in parking lots for a while.

The interstate at 15? That had to be scary. The scariest moment of their lives.

Posted by charlene68 on May 13, 2008 at 8:04 a.m. (Suggest removal)

I do not believe that a child that just got their permit should be driving on the interstate... what is up with that?? my condolences to the family

Posted by jca on May 13, 2008 at 8:05 a.m. (Suggest removal)

my heart breaks for the family of the lost.
but at the same time it doesnt. this could have been prevented. by not allowing a child to drive. once again stupidity on a mothers part kills twice this week. go ahead and attack me for it too i really dont care. this kid shouldnt have been driving plain and simple. the fact she was says someone had been breaking the law previously as kids arent to get behind the wheel til they haVE A PERMIT. rules are there to be followed not broken

i agree the driving age should be the same as drinking. 21. i live across the high way from west ashley high school. these kids speed shoot across the highway without looking or stopping when their light is clearly red.
my husband saw one who was tboned yelling at the guy who it him. this kid told the other driver he needed to watch where he was driving the kid ran a clearly red light. my husband was sitting a block or so back and saw the kid fly straight out into the lane with out slowing even at 4pm in the afternoon. very busy time of the day. teens shouldnt be driving. they think the own the road, i know not all are like this. so do testing in the schools and only allow those who prove they are mature enough and responsible enough to be allowed to have a restricted to school and straight home

Posted by number1volsfan1 on May 13, 2008 at 8:10 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Coldbeer, same goes for me. I taught my teenage daughter to maueuver in empty parking lots, then onto slow, residential streets. Interstate driving wasn't even considered until proficiency was obtained on side streets and highways.

No way should teens who have received their permits within days be on the interstate (especially at that time of day).

My heart felt prayers to all the victims (including the truck driver). He will now be left to deal with this tragedy for the rest of his life.

Posted by LadyTarHeel on May 13, 2008 at 8:13 a.m. (Suggest removal)

My thoughts and prayers are with the family of these two women. It saddens me anytime young lives are lost. I was allowed to drive on I-95 the first day I got my permit. But my dad purposely took me to the section around Lumberton where the speed limit drops to 55 and he made me drive exactly 55 until I got off which is approximately 3 miles. Th entire time my dad was coaching me (he is a driving instructor). It was an exhilarating experience and one I will always remember. It is so unfortunate that this experience turned out in such tragedy. I pray the surviving teen makes a good recovery and the family can find some type of peace in this time of such sorrow.

Posted by n4dhs on May 13, 2008 at 8:14 a.m. (Suggest removal)

my then 17 year old daughter got rear ended on the way to school one morning (NOT her fault) - the kid who hit her (who was in the same graduating class) - didn't have his lights on and was basically doing 55 and she merged into his lane since it was 6:45 am in October and he rammed her - and she has done some stupid things too (not a bad accident thank God) - this 15 year old had NO right to be driving in rush hour traffic on I-26 - that having been said - my condolences to the family - what an awful thing to happen.....

Posted by jca on May 13, 2008 at 8:21 a.m. (Suggest removal)

i was also taught in empty lots never drove on an interstate til i moved to virginia and traffic is worse there. i was in my 20s then

Posted by darnyankee on May 13, 2008 at 8:22 a.m. (Suggest removal)

First I would like to send my condolences to the family. When we moved here a few years ago, I was certainly shocked to find that a CHILD could get their permit and license at the age of 15! I do not believe that a CHILD that age is mature enough at such an age to handle that large of a responsibility. I have two teenagers with their permits. One is 17 and the other is 15. The 17yo just drove on the interstate after having her permit for a year and that was on a Saturday afternoon where there was no traffic. The 15 yo will be driving on the back roads until he can prove control and maturity to handle such a "weapon". I drive on 26 from Summerville to MUSC every day, and I thank god everyday when I make it back and forth to work unharmed and I am experienced driver who has been driving for 24 years!

Student drivers should not be allowed to drive on an interstate until they have a certain amount of hours behind the wheel and perhaps a drivers education course for good measure. Certainly not an hour after receiving their permit!! It is alot different driving 30mph with little traffic to driving 65mph with LOTS of traffic.

Parents please remember it is not only YOUR CHILDS life that is at risk but the others who are one the road. Just imagine if that was a bus load of children and not a cement truck...

Posted by ColdBeer on May 13, 2008 at 8:39 a.m. (Suggest removal)

SCREW THIS AUTO REFRESH!

Posted by Early on May 13, 2008 at 8:46 a.m. (Suggest removal)

darnyankee, I agree, I thank God ever time I make it home too. 526 and I 26 are just accidents waiting to happen.
It also seems that patrolling these areas are lacking, I rarely see a cop!
I grew up in a much bigger city and there were nowhere near the accidents we have here. Not to take away from this tragedy, 15 year olds should not drive on an interstate!

Posted by RTC on May 13, 2008 at 8:52 a.m. (Suggest removal)

I'm sure most of us have a story to tell about our own driving experiences, or how we taught our own kids.
My thoughts and prayers go out to this family in their time of extreme sorrow, but especially to the truck driver who will be haunted by this for the rest of his life.
I can only pray that something positive will come out of this horrible tragedy.

Posted by proudmomma on May 13, 2008 at 9:33 a.m. (Suggest removal)

My thoughts and prayers are with the family, especially the surviving twin, and the truck driver.

Posted by ClemsonAsh06 on May 13, 2008 at 10:15 a.m. (Suggest removal)

It amazes me that people can come on here and bash this family and their decisions in such a tragic time. These girls were former patients of mine and along with their mother are three of the nicest, smartest, and most polite people I have ever met. They were an absolute pleasure to be around, even when sick in the hospital. Charleston has lost two wonderful members of society. Rest in peace, ladies.

Posted by CHRISJIII on May 13, 2008 at 10:19 a.m. (Suggest removal)

This is very sad. My condolenses to the family and their loved ones.

Posted by Girleygirl on May 13, 2008 at 10:34 a.m. (Suggest removal)

My condolenses to the family and friends of the deceased and to the driver involved, I hope you have a speedy recovery.

Posted by Ou_fronist on May 13, 2008 at 10:40 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Gotta agree with all who’ve expressed the effect of inexperience in such an ‘adversarial arena! Maybe it’s time DOT/DMV looked at a ‘mandatory’ COMPREHENSIVE driver’s training program, for everyone!!
I have a piece of paper in my wallet that says I can fly an airplane. It took me about four months of fairly INTENSIVE flying with a CERTIFIED INSTRUCTOR – not just Mom/ Dad/ Aunt/ Uncle/ friend down the street – before I was allowed to take an EXTENSIVE written test and ALL-INCLUSIVE flight exam, giving me the privilege to fly on my own.
To keep my license CURRENT, I have to have a physical exam every two years, as well as a COMPREHENSIVE flight exam for EVERYTHING my license ‘allows’, not just taxiing, takeoffs and landings.
I wonder what our highways and byways would look like if this same flying standard were applied to driving?!?

Posted by karace on May 13, 2008 at 10:54 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Harpo,

That's completely inappropriate of you to say. Obviously, the young girl's intention was not to cause an accident, and she certainly has taken enough for the mistake by losing her life. Your analysis of the conditions leading up to the accident are not changing anything and just because we would like everyone to respect the rules of driving, not everyone does. Your statements are disrespectful to the family and friends of these women who lost their lives. I'm sure that without your obnoxious comment about the procedure of changing lanes, everyone realizes that this was her mistake, that an unfortunate price has been paid and that everyone at some time or another makes a poor decision-some just aren't given the chance to learn from it.

I recognize that this is not an issue to be debated and that this site is not a forum for argument. However, I think that it would be appreciated by many people if you refrained from saying such things-at least out of respect for the friends and families of the victims.

kara.c.e

Posted by ColdBeer on May 13, 2008 at 11:03 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Wow, such a beautiful young girl too. That smile could make freinds anywhere. This story gets more sad by the moment. I haven't heard anything on the condition of Rishire beyond the broken leg. I hope she makes a full recovery and I hope she has the support system to help get through this.

Posted by Nichole4cm on May 13, 2008 at 11:12 a.m. (Suggest removal)

My heart breaks for this family.. My small son and I came upon the scene within minutes after it happened and I knew the outcome would not be a happy one. May God be with this family in this sad time.
I also wanted to mention that I was amazed by the group of young men who jumped out of their car after seeing the accident and climbed over the cement truck onto the smaller car to assist the injured passengers. Thank you for being such exceptional young men.

Posted by kris86 on May 13, 2008 at 11:13 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Very sad story, but it goes to show that it's not a good idea to let kids drive on the interstate just after getting permits! Wait until they are a little more experienced at driving!! I got my permit at age 16 and I refused to drive on the interstate until I was atleast 17, and even then I was reluctant!
My thoughts are prayers are with the family.

Posted by pelagicnavigatordotcom on May 13, 2008 at 11:15 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Drivers Ed is manditory in Virginia where I grew up. Part of the class was that you had to drive on the beltway on I-95, 395, and 495. It was scary, but everyone had to do it. I have never seen as many stupid drivers as I have in SC. Just today a truck came off of I-26 onto aviation and did not even think to yield at the sign, and then someone made a right turn from the left lane right in front of me.

What needs to happen is more education for the ones just starting driving.

And rubber neckers need to be ticketed too.

Sorry for the families loss

Posted by Rebel_Yell on May 13, 2008 at 11:41 a.m. (Suggest removal)

It is amazing to read the comments of the public on this one. No sympathy at all for this family. It was their loss -- not yours. You have no right to criticize or pass judgment a day afer the accident on a public forum. Why don't you people go and protest at the funeral while you are at it--no class. This was a tragedy and an accident--they happen--that's life.

Posted by number1volsfan1 on May 13, 2008 at 11:48 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Rebel-Yell, ALL accidents are preventable. If bringing awareness to drivers-in-training can prevent another tragedy (like this one), then this forum will be well served.

Posted by pelagicnavigatordotcom on May 13, 2008 at 11:54 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Just like I said, more education on driving is needed. I do feel for the family. Especially the sister who will always ask herself why shhe lived and they didn't. But these comments will most likely not be read by the family, so while condolences are good to post, if you really wanted to get your message of prayers and thoughts to the family, you would find a better way to do it I would think.

Posted by OMcQueen on May 13, 2008 at 12:01 p.m. (Suggest removal)

This story has truly broken my heart and my family's heart. While coming home from work, my mother, which were Cushire and Rishire Godmother, called with this horrible news. The Akabidavis family grew very close to my family while they lived in New York. Even though we were miles away, we were always in contact with one another.

I give my condolences to the Akabidavis family, along with their family in New York and Rhode Island. Christina and her daughters, Cushire and Rishire were beautiful people both inside and out. Christina was such a great mother to those girls; she raised two intelligent, well mannered girls. It's just a shame that the good people on this earth are always the first to go. They will be missed.

I pray that God presence comfort your family's heart and minister to your every need in this time of sadness and loss.

With Deepest Sympathy,
Onika MCQueen & Yolanda McQueen

Posted by ik on May 13, 2008 at 12:07 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I think this story is a very heartbreaking and breath taking accident. I think this shows us that we should hug, kiss, and tell all those that we love when we can. It shows us that we are not always guaranteed a tomorrow no matter your age.

I don't think this is a time to scrutinize driving age or "rubber neckers". This is not a time to be selfish and tell about our own road encounters. This should be a time to express our condolences to the friends and family of the girl that is left without a mother and her twin sister, and to the man that has been left with the guilt of hurting this family which looks to be no fault of his own.

This is a very unfortunate accident, and maybe it will open the eyes of the law-makers.

My deepest condolences to the girl that has survived and to her friends and family on her loss and to the man that has been left with the guilt of this.

Posted by Jane on May 13, 2008 at 12:18 p.m. (Suggest removal)

So sickening. What an unbearable loss and such a beautiful girl. She radiates warmth and kindness in that photo. God bless.

Posted by Early on May 13, 2008 at 12:18 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Oh man, I wish they would not have put her picture up, she is absolutely gorgeous and has that look that she could be anybody's friend. That one hurt! out

Posted by UrGatorbait on May 13, 2008 at 12:24 p.m. (Suggest removal)

My thoughts and prayers to the family of the deceased. Peace be to them, family and friends.

To the self-righteous a******s that are preaching again and justifying it by whatever means, give it a rest. Very considerate in a families time of loss. You have the personalities of friggin' rocks. Rocks even have more class them some here.

Posted by suec on May 13, 2008 at 12:34 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Very well said jk.

My heart breaks for this family and the truck driver.

Posted by abitskeptical on May 13, 2008 at 12:36 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I understand the sentiments of those who have taken issue with the fact that some have posted comments beyond, or in addition to, condolences & well wishes for the family.

However, I do not think most have meant to "bash" the family for the decision to let a new driver drive the interstate. I imagine that the mother & daughter who died would, if they could, warn against this practice.

This is a very disturbing & heartbreaking situation even for those of us who do not know these folks. People as a rule try to fix a problem by coming up with a way to avoid it or make it better. We all probably have done things that could have ended up in tragedy, but blessedly did not. Life is often fragile & we have seen that fact here.

Posted by ln1959 on May 13, 2008 at 12:45 p.m. (Suggest removal)

My condolence to this family. Losing such a beautiful young lady and there mother. Her twin sister will need all the support in the world. Twins have this tie that others can't understand. My best wishes for fast recovery for here and the truck drive.

Posted by pelagicnavigatordotcom on May 13, 2008 at 11:15 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Drivers Ed is mandatory in Virginia where I grew up. Part of the class was that you had to drive on the beltway on I-95, 395, and 495. It was scary, but everyone had to do it. I have never seen as many stupid drivers as I have in SC. Just today a truck came off of I-26 onto aviation and did not even think to yield at the sign, and then someone made a right turn from the left lane right in front of me.

Well, I live in Northern Virginia where I-95, 395 and 495 all runs into each other and when I moved here, I though I was going to have an heat attack with these drivers. No signal lights and They will run you off the road. Wont let you in and will cut you off.

So please don't call my people in SC stupid drivers, because its the people from North that are causing most of the accidents in SC and there are accident here every morning. I get up at 5 am and turn on the news, whats the first thing I hear, accident on 95N, 395 N. It takes me 1 1/2 hours to get 30 miles every morning. Bet you can't say that about SC.

Posted by Charles_Town on May 13, 2008 at 12:54 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Prayers go out to all those involved in this tragic accident.

Posted by palmettotree on May 13, 2008 at 1:13 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I was going to come on here and express my opinions on the matter on who would let their 15 yr old child drive on 26 during rush hour. But I can't seem to do that. I feel real bad for what happened yesterday. I know that the family is grieving with the loss of not one but two people. My prayers are with them today.
lately there just seems to be too many accidents on I 26. Where are the cops patrolling the streets? I see them but they are usually going 80 mph down the highway.

Posted by summerville_guy on May 13, 2008 at 1:40 p.m. (Suggest removal)

This sucks.

Posted by jblakeslee on May 13, 2008 at 1:54 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I am a FROMER state licensed driving instructor, therefore this is not a "commerical" for driver training, but PLEASE parents.....send your new driver to a liscensed drivers training school. Let their first experience in traffic be with a person who is trained to handle emergency situtations with a vehicle equipped for the training.(the vehicles are required by law to have a passenger brake pedal). Let their first experience on the interstate be with someone who can explain proper entry/exit/lane change procedures. This is a very sad life changing event that could have been prevented.

Posted by katrenavantassle on May 13, 2008 at 2:04 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Deepest sympathy to the family, and to the truck driver, May God heal the pain they all must feel.

Posted by Hey_U_Guys on May 13, 2008 at 2:06 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Accidents happen almost every hour around here, it would seem. Most accidents can be prevented. I don't know what possessed this lady to allow one of her newly 15 year old daughters to drive on 26 at 3pm on a weekday. But the consequences of those actions are irreversible. It's sad what happened but people have got to use a little common sense once and a while. Your second thought might just save a life or two.

Posted by jblakeslee on May 13, 2008 at 2:07 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Just to clarify a point: Drivers ed. IS Mandatory in SC for drivers under 17 to receive their liscense. They have to complete a 8 Hr classroom course, and have 40 Hrs behind the wheel practice. The practice part is the problem. Only 6 hrs of that time has to be with a liscensed instructor. The other 34 does not have to be. The teenager can procure a permit and drive. The Driver's ed. course does not have to be completed until they take the road test. A teenager can obtain their permit, and drive away from the DMV with no other driving experence.

Such a very sad story. My prayers are with the family and friends.

Posted by Hey_U_Guys on May 13, 2008 at 2:07 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Does driving school fall under that "Those who can't do, teach" category?! LOL

Posted by robyngirls on May 13, 2008 at 2:33 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Everyone should take into consideration that

ALL THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON!

Unfortunately, the lesson to all can be in the sacrifice of ones life to teach others.

My heart and prayers goes out to this beautiful and loving family.

I have two daughters of my own whom are classmates of the twins at Porter Gaud. And I can truly say that society has loss two outstanding, wonderful, beautiful people. They were always kind and thoughtful to others. I just Thank God that my family had the opportunity to know them.

We send our condolences to the family. May God give you peace and understanding during this time. Our hearts and prayers goes out to you all.

Friends of The Akabidavis Family

Posted by SuzieQJones on May 13, 2008 at 2:54 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Such a sad situation. A terrible mistake with a very bad end. Condolences to the sister and to the father (who is coming back from Iraq). Also to the truck driver. I see people do this exact thing in this exact spot all of the time. There seem to be a lot of police officers in the area to catch speeders, but not to stop people from making tragic decisions.

Posted by you_know_me on May 13, 2008 at 2:59 p.m. (Suggest removal)

MY GOD, I am sorry for this families loss. I hope that you will recover and live a long and healthy life. Also, my best wishes to the driver of the truck and may God grant you a speedy recovery. GOD BLESS EVERYONE involved.

Posted by theronce on May 13, 2008 at 3:18 p.m. (Suggest removal)

My mother got her license when she was 12. I got mine at 14. The eligible age now is 15. Maybe it is time to raise the age again. So tragic!

Posted by Hey_U_Guys on May 13, 2008 at 3:24 p.m. (Suggest removal)

karace and theronce: are you two related?

Posted by LowcountryMoose on May 13, 2008 at 3:25 p.m. (Suggest removal)

As if this wasn't a tearjerker already, here is a poem written by Cushire's sister when she was in middle school:

Dream’s Edge
by Rishire Akabidavis

This is where dreams are made
and sometimes where they fall.
The birthplace of all dreams,
but reality soon follows.
They come together at the edge,
unable to mesh apart.
They stay together forever more
at our little town on the edge of reality,
on the edge of dreams.
The dreams we dream so close to the edge.
So close ...
We might just fall off,
but we don’t because it’s Dream’s Edge,
and I don’t dream of falling off.
Do you?

Posted by ForPnC on May 13, 2008 at 3:37 p.m. (Suggest removal)

What a beautiful young woman. I never knew you but you will be missed!

As for those that are complaining about the complainers. Like it or not, you just joined the crowd. You should have just sent your condolences and quit typing right there. You are one of us.

Posted by pelagicnavigatordotcom on May 13, 2008 at 3:46 p.m. (Suggest removal)

To the person living in NOVA, do you ever think that instead of them up north being bad drivers, it might have been you? I have lived back and forth between here and VA my whole life, and this place has by far the worst drivers. But seriously, I do not want to continue this on this families spot. go to the website where my username will direct you if you want to talk about it more

Posted by chucktonian on May 13, 2008 at 4:04 p.m. (Suggest removal)

tragic story, what a loss.

People need to understand the following. I will type it 3 times in all caps:

LARGE, HEAVY TRUCKS CANNOT STOP

LARGE, HEAVY TRUCKS CANNOT STOP

LARGE, HEAVY TRUCKS CANNOT STOP

And you should have to be 21 to drive, vote and drink. 15 year olds in 2008 are toddlers

Posted by unc42569 on May 13, 2008 at 4:30 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Please remember one thing... although the mom will never read these comments, the surviving sister may one day read them and if she does or if she hears someone talking about her sister shouldn't have been allowed to drive by their mom... what will that do to her. Her life is forever changed and our thoughts should be on her.
While I get frustrated about crazy drivers, teenage mistakes, etc., there isn't one among us who have never made a mistake behind the wheel that could have easily cost someone their life.

Posted by bravecharleston9myspace on May 13, 2008 at 4:33 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I AGREED TILL YOU GOT THE END.....

15 YEAR OLDS IN 2008 ARE NOT TODDLERS DUDE!!!!!!!!!GRRR!!!!

SHE HAD A GREAT CLEAR MIND, VERY SMART, WONDERFULY GIFTED AND HAD SO MUCH GOING FOR HER FUTURE!!!

******* JUST NOT READY FOR THE INTERSTATE!!!! UGH!!!!

WATCH WHAT YOU SAY........DANG!!!!

never forgetting together,
missy (storms out)

Posted by bravecharleston9myspace on May 13, 2008 at 4:35 p.m. (Suggest removal)

MY COMMENT WENT TO THE RUDE ENDING COMMENT OF chucktonian

Posted by karace on May 13, 2008 at 4:41 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I'm not going to argue with you Harpo. Points can be made without being profane and disrespectful, not just to the family and friends of the lost, but to anyone who can put his or her own self 'in the shoes' of these people. If something so tragic may ever plague your life, I pray that no one will be so heartless as to say such things about you. It is not an issue of the purpose of this site, but rather just about moral descency as to not say things like that.

Posted by Jassy on May 13, 2008 at 5:08 p.m. (Suggest removal)

WOW Harpo you are a heartless person..My thoughts and prayers go out to the families that are affected by this!!

Posted by upstate2lowcountry on May 13, 2008 at 5:16 p.m. (Suggest removal)

First, let me say how sorry I am for the families of the Akabidavises and Mr. Mobley. Let their communties be a source of support through this tragedy.

Second, I am a bit perplexed by the posters who are quick to criticize the ones talking about the driving age, drivers ed, etc. It is my understanding that these forums should be like a think tank. If we do not express our opinions and address controversial issues, how are we supposed to move towards changing anything? Do we want the same things happening over and over because we are too busy protecting the feelings of the families that might perhaps may be reading this story? Don't get me wrong, there is a level of good form and sensitivity that should be maintained, but please - it isn't that difficult to be mature and respectful. I noticed this especially with the story about Russell Breaker and Elizabeth Payseur.

Posted by squeak on May 13, 2008 at 5:22 p.m. (Suggest removal)

What a sad, sad story. I am so sorry for the loss of these two wonderful people.

Posted by CedarPosts on May 13, 2008 at 5:34 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Like I said only a few days ago.... I-26 is getting insane.

Crosses are popping up all along the route that I drive (Chucktown to Cola) a 100 times a year.

Some of you pay your attention bill, but most of you are nutz!

You drive too slow, change lanes without looking, truckers who light load at break neck speed and truckers who drive side by side at 60 MPH for miles as one tries to get past the other on a series of up hill grades really piss me off, (there should be a law) while 2 dozen cars jockey for postition like NASCAR under a caution flag behind them.

Suits on their cell phones and C of C students texting like crazy, while soccer mom's with screaming kids in the back seat weave their mini van in and out of traffic because dad is already at the soccer game.

Don't forget the guy on the sport bike who has a death wish and a sprinkling of mexicans without insurance, most often ten to a pickup.

Add one 15 year old newbie driver and whatcha expect?

Posted by Foreverloved on May 13, 2008 at 5:39 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I understand that everyone has their own opinion about certain situations, but please be respectful of other readers. This article is public and there are yound kids reading about their friend/classmate/family. Pointing the finger/ blaming anyone in this horrible accident wouldn't help the Porter- Gaud community get through their second tragedy this year. I BEG you to please just be respectful.

Cushire may you Rest In Peace.
Forever loved and always missed.

Posted by Two_Sheds on May 13, 2008 at 6:19 p.m. (Suggest removal)

This is one of the saddest stories I've read in a long time. Does anyone know if there are other siblings, or is she now an only child? I pray for the father and remaining daughter.

But, I also agree that a newly-minted 15 year old driver has no business on I-26 so close to rush hour.

Maybe I'm showing my age here, but does anyone else remember when, in the 1980s, SC teenagers were allowed to drive our school buses? I was in high school then, and that was a total joke--there was no discipline on the bus (who's going to listen to a 16 year old?!), and they drove horribly, because they were too busy joking it up with their friends.

Our teenaged bus driver on James Island was the WORST driver ever! Miraculously, we never got into an accident, but there's no telling how many accidents she likely CAUSED.

Posted by wwarren92 on May 13, 2008 at 6:20 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I barely knew of the Akabidavis girls; only meeting them at a retreat last year;
but we have mutual friends,

and i know that I am mourning for the Akabidavis', as well as the entire P-G community in their time of loss.

We're praying for you all.

Posted by Serious on May 13, 2008 at 6:25 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I totally blaim the mother, sorry but truth be told. the mother didn't have no business letting that unexperienced teen behind the wheel on an interstate. The mother should have already known that the interstate is the most dangerous place someone can drive on. The question is why? It just doesn't make any sense. Did she want to end her and her loved ones lives? The world may never know. But my heart goes out to their families.

Posted by LadyTarHeel on May 13, 2008 at 6:36 p.m. (Suggest removal)

My what a beautiful girl. I have to agree with the poster that stated that she looked like she could be anyone's friend. My condolences to the family. Be safe everyone.

Posted by grillmaster on May 13, 2008 at 6:57 p.m. (Suggest removal)

CedarPosts: By far the most well said of all the posts today.

Bottom line is we must treat our vehicles like the potential weapons they are. May this sad story be a wake up call for us all and shake out of our selfish driving habits. We must share the road with EVERYONE and driving like you are the only person on the road is like waving around a loaded gun. I see insanity on the highways daily. The nicest people turn into raging lunatics and cause a short circuit between the steering wheel and the seat.

Not passing any judgment to the mom in this story, but 15 year olds ARE much too young to be driving. When I was 15 I would have protested that too Charleston9myspace, but I have spent many years working in law enforcement, and I have become much older and wiser. Cars are the number 1 killer of teens. Teens are more dangerous than drunk drivers. These are facts.

The highways are not video games; they are dangerous places we gravely underestimate. People don't understand that at highway speeds (not to mention the suicidal speeds others drive)cars are on the razor's edge of staying in control.

What a horrific story and it is awful that 2 beautiful people were take away from us far to early. My heart goes out to the surviving twin, her family and the truck driver who will forever be scarred as well. Maybe this loss will finally wake some people up (along with our law makers) and in turn save other lives.

Posted by grillmaster on May 13, 2008 at 7:05 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Arch dude:

1. Chronological age has EVERYTHING to do with driving. If it was coordination, my nephew would've been driving when he was 4! (He's much more coordinated than I and it shows when we play Xbox)

2. This is the place for debate and opinions as well as sympathies.

Posted by leep on May 13, 2008 at 7:09 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I stick to the back roads.

Posted by chucktonian on May 13, 2008 at 7:49 p.m. (Suggest removal)

to clarify:

I was criticizing the SC law that allows driving at 15. there was nothing wrong with the mother allowing her daughter to lawfully drive with a permit. she did nothing wrong and bears no blame.

however, in my opinion, 15 is too young. 16 is too young. 18 is too young. To me, 21 is the proper age of a real "adult."

Posted by tylerrene on May 13, 2008 at 8:12 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Harpo

There is no need for that kind of language- show some respect and speak with a mature mouth.

Chucktonian

I agree that 15 is too young, I would say at least 16 for permit. And for anyones first time driving, never the interstate... thats not even a safe place for drivers with some experience.

my condolences to the family

Posted by umakebrains on May 13, 2008 at 8:18 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Serious, you need Jesus, Harpo needs to be euthanized!!! As a parent I do believe that mother had been teaching those girls to drive prior to this accident. Blame lies on no one now, Each and every one of our lives are predestined whether you want to believe it or not, you will leave when your room is ready believe it or not! It is time for prayer not pointing.

Posted by ColdBeer on May 13, 2008 at 8:27 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Gotta disagree with umakebrains on this one.

Posted by workinghard on May 13, 2008 at 8:35 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Confederatethornman......hey check out this idiots other 5 posts............why is it only the good die young????

Posted by mrsmomofthree on May 13, 2008 at 9:24 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Unfortunately I know this pain all too well. I lost my brother when he was 16 in a car accident. I was 18 when he died and ever since I have known my children would not be so lucky to drive at such a young age. It is devastating to lose a child or lose someone so young. My heart goes out to this family. You need to come together and help each other heal. It is easy to fall apart during such a tough time.

Posted by karace on May 13, 2008 at 9:53 p.m. (Suggest removal)

archdude:

your open-mindedness to the issue is appreciated and was very well stated.

Posted by buff_o_rilla on May 13, 2008 at 10:40 p.m. (Suggest removal)

No learners permits until after teens have completed drivers ed, either thru the school system or a private agency. I would also suggest that most of the people driving the roads also complete a course of drivers ed, Ive lived in a lot of places and this is one of the worse places ive seen for drivers who dont know the rules of the road and red light runners!!!

Posted by wonderdog on May 13, 2008 at 10:49 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I pray every day that all our children come home safely. This is so very, very sad.

Posted by tylerrene on May 13, 2008 at 10:52 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Serious,

"Did she want to end her loved ones lives?"

You didn't really just write that?!

WOW. A little harsh and completely ignorant to the real facts of what happend.

We know well what happend was based on a poor decision... don't twist it.

Posted by prosperous_hb on May 13, 2008 at 11:14 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Harpo...I'm really praying for you b/c you are one of the most inconsiderate and heartless person that I've ever come across.

I don't know this family, but my heart and prayers go out two them.

Did anyone hear about the guy that lost his 3 kids and wife in a house fire in Dillon? That too was a sad story.

Folks, we really have to start valuing life b/c people are leaving earth by the second...be careful how you treat folks b/c the next second, it could be you.

Posted by AMPhillips on May 13, 2008 at 11:20 p.m. (Suggest removal)

This is not the place for an internet argument or self-righteous lectures.

As a member of the Porter-Gaud community, I speak for all of us when I say the twins' close friends would be appalled by some of the responses to this disturbing account of their beloved companion's last hour.

Posted by brown_eyed_girl on May 13, 2008 at 11:40 p.m. (Suggest removal)

First and foremost, my deepest condolences go out to this family. I too hope that the surviving twin has a strong and caring support system to help her through this most difficult time she has ahead of her.
To ALL Charleston area drivers, PLEASE understand that large commercial vehicles (i.e. construction trucks, 18-wheelers, etc.) CANNOT stop like we can in passenger vehicles. Many are carry very heavy loads that prevent the trucks from doing so. My husband drives an 18-wheeler for a local company and deals with this sort of problem each and every day because of the way many people drive here in Charleston. I praise God every night for bringing him home safe to me and our young children. I just hope that this horrible tragedy serves as a lesson to ALL drivers to show respect for the trucker (who is someone's husband, father, wife, mother or other loved one) travelling alongside you. Make sure there is plenty of space between you and an oncoming truck before changing lanes or pulling out onto the road. GOD BLESS

Posted by KDB4 on May 13, 2008 at 11:48 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Why does everyone keep telling Harpo what he/she can't say? This is America and we have freedom of speech. You don't have to agree with him. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. That's why YOU are able to get on here and voice your dislikes of others opinions. That said, It is scary to drive anywhere there are other drivers. I am a very nice person and care for others, but when I am driving I get so upset. People break the law all around me. I prevent accidents daily. I am so sad when someone has to die from a brief mistake. I am so blessed that my carelessness hasn't caused anyone harm. If anyone from the family does EVER read this, you are in my prayers and I hope you find peace and rely on God for your comfort. God bless everyone and please drive safely.

Posted by PorterGaudStudent on May 14, 2008 at 10:13 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Cushire we all love you and miss you RIP and Rishire please get well soon

Posted by chmarie on May 15, 2008 at 9:56 a.m. (Suggest removal)

I have spent some time reading the comments about this story. I ask people to remember that a mother and daughter died in this wreck. It is not the time to pass judgement on this family and the decisions that were made by the mother. Having known this family well, I know that she was an outstanding person who loved her children with all that she had. She wanted them to be happy, she wanted to give them everything that she could. She was raising two incredibly intelligent and caring young women. Perhaps there is a lesson that we can learn about protecting our teenage children, but I ask that people PLEASE not pass judgement on a woman who they never knew. She does not deserve it. I would ask that you put your energy toward sending positive thoughts to the young woman that has been left behind; the young woman who lost her twin sister and her mother; the young woman who sits in her hospital bed, as I type, trying to find a way to face every minute of every day without the two people who were everything to her. This is a tragic event.

Posted by bcbay on July 2, 2008 at 12:40 a.m. (Suggest removal)

I am Maurishire's best friend, and was a close friend to Marcushire and Christina, and this story was devastating and completely life-altering for me. I just don't understand how many of you could be more concerned about driving laws and how irresponsible the family's decisions were that day. Whether or not these statements are true is not the point. The point is that there were two lives lost, and two of the most beautiful souls are vanished from the Earth. And I know that if Maurishire were ever to read these comments, it would destroy her. How could you all say things like this about two innocent, deceased people?

Trust me, they'll never make this mistake again. So why try to make things worse by making this a statistic, and not what it truly is, a devastating, awful tragedy?

Please, people, have a heart. All I can do is pray that you'll understand.